It's pretty easy to identify what you care about. Not just care, what you are determined to succeed in. It's level in which you commit, or how much skin in the game you have. If it's of low-risk, chances are when times are tough, you will bail on the plan or the goal because you have little to lose. But when you committed to the success by putting real time, money, effort into the success. You're putting skin in the game and it's easy to see your true priorities.